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Hurting Oneself

 

Human beings often live as though they already possess everything. This attitude appears normal and is even regarded as a sign of maturity and independence. Yet in truth, living this way is the most subtle denial of the most basic truth: we exist because we were created. There is a God who created life, and He has a will and a plan for every human being. The question is not whether we know this, but whether we truly live within that reality.

We should be grateful that we live in a place and a time where the gospel can still be proclaimed freely. The opportunity to change is still open. Therefore, while the door of grace has not yet closed, human beings are called to make a serious decision: to choose God, to understand His will, and to do His will. This choice does not stop at a confession of faith, but demands full attention to the steps of daily life—the words we speak, our attitude toward our spouse, children, and parents, the way we treat time, money, and every aspect of life.

Life itself is actually God’s domain. Human beings are not owners, but stewards. Therefore, life must be surrendered back to the One who owns it. In this reality, people are often confronted with difficult choices. Opportunities to follow sin are always present, but obedience demands self-denial, and this feels like hurting oneself. Holding back anger when one wants to vent it, choosing silence when one wants to retaliate, refusing momentary pleasure for the sake of truth—this is what is called the death of the flesh. It is not a reckless act, but a conscious decision to live under God’s control and will.

God Himself has set a high standard for life: perfection. Rejecting this calling is not merely rejecting a teaching, but rejecting God Himself. Many people consider this demand unreasonable and too heavy. Indeed, it is not easy. The stake is not merely comfort in life, but one’s entire existence. Yet in the midst of that struggle, when a person begins to set aside time to meet with God, an inner space truly opens—a space where God speaks gently yet firmly.

As life undergoes a process of cleansing, a person’s spiritual sensitivity increases, so that God’s voice becomes clearer, until the heart is filled with holy reverence. At that moment, a person may arrive at the deepest confession: the old life has ended, the actual harbor has been found, and happiness is no longer sought outside of God. From this point on, a changed life is no longer an optional choice but a necessity. Holiness demands real struggle, not compromise.

The apostle Peter affirms this in his letter. He writes that warnings are given to stir up sincere understanding, so that believers may remember the words spoken by the prophets and the commandment of the Lord delivered through the apostles (2 Pet. 3:1–2). Warnings often sound uncomfortable: do not be angry, do not live carelessly, repent. Yet later, people will realize that those very warnings were what saved them. Eternity is an overwhelming reality, and ignoring it means risking everything.

Sadly, spiritual warnings are often misunderstood. There is a stigma that servants of God merely frighten people with hell for personal interests. This view is not only wrong but also dangerous because it dulls the heart to truth. Spiritual disease is far more deadly than physical illness. Those lying in a hospital bed still have hope of recovery, but a soul that falls into eternal destruction knows only weeping and gnashing of teeth.

Peter again warns that in the last days scoffers will come, living according to their own desires. They question the promise of the Lord’s coming and live as though everything will continue as it has from the beginning (2 Pet. 3:3–5). Ironically, they are not people who do not know God, but those who claim to believe that God is the Creator of heaven and earth. Their confession of faith does not align with their way of life. Through careless living, they mock God—not with words, but with deeds.

History bears witness that God’s judgment is not a myth. The world that was once destroyed by the flood is now being preserved for the coming judgment (2 Pet. 3:6–7). This reality leaves one unavoidable conclusion: life cannot be lived carelessly. There is a living God, and one day every human being will stand before Him.

This awareness should move people to repentance. Repentance is not merely out of fear, but out of an understanding of truth. Ignoring this call means harming oneself—not only in this present life, but also in eternity. Living rightly before God is not a burden, but the only path