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Fear of the Wrong Things

 

Matthew 9:8
And when the crowds saw it, they were afraid and praised God, who had given such authority to men.

People can be greatly afraid of losing health, job, security, or a loved one, yet rarely — if ever — tremble at committing sin and wrongdoing. Someone will be shaken when a medical test worsens, income is threatened, or the future is uncertain. But when the heart has grown fond of the world, nurtures hatred, and ignores God’s will, one can still live as if nothing serious has happened. 

Matthew shows a series of events that reveal various sources of human fear. The disciples feared the storm. The residents of Gadara feared two men possessed by demons. The person with paralysis faced bodily weakness and the limitations of life. All these are frightening. Yet when Jesus encountered the paralytic, He brought the most fundamental issue to the surface: sin. A storm can sink a boat, and disease can end bodily life, but sin concerns a person’s standing before God and the direction of eternity.

After the paralytic rose and walked, the crowd was filled with fear and praised God. Their fear was not panic at something horrific. They were seeing God’s work, which exceeded human capability. They witnessed that God had given the Son of Man authority to declare forgiveness and prove it through healing. That event should awaken a healthy awe: God is at work, His Kingdom is being revealed, and people must no longer treat sin as a trivial matter.

Unfortunately, we often have inverted fears. We fear losing human approval more than losing God’s favor. We fear a business loss more than we fear gaining advantage through dishonesty. We fear strained relationships more than letting them pull us away from God’s will. We are more afraid of living in hardship than of living without purity. Such fears reveal what we truly value most.

Fear of God is not a terror that drives people away from Him without hope. Fear of God is a deep awareness that life unfolds before Him and every choice has eternal consequences. This awareness stops us from playing with grace. We no longer say, “I’ll repent later,” because there is no guarantee that today’s opportunity will be available tomorrow. A time will come when life’s journey ends, and we will no longer have the opportunity to correct decisions we have willfully maintained.

Remembering death and final judgment is not a gloomy attitude that removes joy. Rather, awareness of limited time helps us live responsibly. We learn to distinguish what is merely urgent from what truly has eternal value. Many people spend energy building comfort, reputation, and wealth, but neglect character formation. Yet when life ends, what we bring before God is not the abundance of our possessions but the quality of the self that has been formed through every decision and act of obedience.

On the other hand, forgiveness gives courage to face life’s storms. If we live at peace with God and sincerely walk in His will, suffering is no longer the ultimate end. Illness, loss, and death remain painful, but they cannot thwart God’s eternal purpose for the faithful. An eternal perspective does not make us dismiss suffering but places it in proper measure. What matters most is not whether our lives are always comfortable, but whether we are found living in a way that pleases the Father. Therefore, examine what you fear most today. Fear can be a window that reveals the center of our heart. If losing money terrifies you more than losing integrity, money has taken an improper place. If human rejection frightens you more than disobedience to God, human judgment has become the master of your life.