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Blessed Are Those Who Mourn

 

Matthew 5:4
“Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.”

What does the Lord mean by this? To understand, we must examine the original text and its etymology. By tracing a word’s origin, we can better grasp the intended meaning.

The word translated “mourn” here is penthountes, which is rendered the same way in English. In Indonesian, it is often rendered “berdukacita,” but the original is stronger — not merely sorrow, but lamentation. Similar terms appear in Matthew 9:15; Mark 16:10; Luke 6:25; James 4:9; 1 Corinthians 5:2; 2 Corinthians 12:21; and Revelation 18:11. Penthountes comes from pentheō, meaning to lament over a grievous condition. It indicates very deep sorrow — as in Mark 16:10, where it is used to express grief over the dead.

We must understand that a believer’s life is not one of constant, worldly laughter and superficial joy. The world has its laughter and emotional pleasures, but their laughter and mourning are oriented differently from ours. In this verse, we see a kind of mourning that yields benefit. Those who do not know this kind of mourning will be swept away by the world’s laughter.

In Luke 6:25, the Lord says, “Woe to you who are full now, for you will be hungry. Woe to you who laugh now, for you will grieve and weep.” Jesus is referring to worldly laughter. So when He speaks of mourning and then promises comfort, the mourning meant here is not the world’s mourning, and the comfort promised is not the world’s comfort. Our laughter and our mourning belong to a wholly different realm.

Blessed are those who mourn” is paradoxical and unexpected. People avoid mourning, yet here it brings comfort. We must not mistake this mourning for ordinary sorrow, nor the comfort for ordinary relief.

Consider Christian communities oriented toward meeting material needs. When they speak of maturity or mourning, their focus remains on material issues: being in debt, being cheated, a business failing, or being betrayed by a friend. They assume God allows suffering and later comforts by providing a new friend, a new spouse, or more provisions. That is not the meaning of this verse. This mourning and comfort do not pertain to material provision.

Paul elsewhere says, “Even if I made you sorrowful with my letter, I do not regret it—though I did regret it once, for I saw that that letter grieved you, but only for a while. Now I rejoice, not because you were grieved, but because you were grieved into repenting.” Here we see a different kind of grief. “For godly grief produces a repentance that leads to salvation without regret, whereas worldly grief produces death.”

Hearing the word “mourning,” we tend to reject it as negative. No one likes mourning. Yet in this case, we must experience and accept it as a blessing, because it is not the grief of worldly problems. When Paul wrote a letter that made the church grieve, he opened their eyes to their condition, which displeased the Lord.