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Among Friends and Enemies

 

James 4:4
“You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Therefore, whoever wishes to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.”

The statement in James 4:4 is not addressed to those outside God’s chosen people, but to the twelve tribes dispersed (James 1:1). They are the tribes directly chosen by God as His own people. Yet throughout their history, these chosen people often grieved God’s heart. Again and again God disciplined them through various pressures so that they would realize and turn away from their evil ways. Unfortunately, that awareness often lasted only a short while. After circumstances improved, they returned to their old patterns of life. That is why James calls them unfaithful. This label is not without reason, but arises from the recurring reality in the life of God’s people.

What happened to Israel is not very different from the life of believers today. We who the blood of Christ has redeemed are called God’s chosen people and His own possession. 1 Peter 2:9 says: “But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.” Yet often our lives still reflect darkness. Christianity becomes merely an identity or religious status, not a real way of being. To be a Christian means to live as Christ lived. His life should be visible through our thinking, speaking, and acting each day.

Being a Christian should bring Christ’s life into every aspect of living. Others ought to hear the echo of Christ’s words through our speech and see Christ’s character through our deeds. But what often happens is the opposite. Many Christians live with the same mindset as the world. A world that never knows sufficiency. A world that regards greed as normal so long as it is wrapped in reasons such as precaution, preparedness, investment, or risk mitigation. Greed ultimately seems reasonable because it is packaged with arguments that sound wise. Ironically, this way of life has even entered the walls of the church.

Friendship with the world is often no longer seen as dangerous. Some even justify it by saying, “We must be wise.” Yet God’s Word clearly states that friendship with the world is enmity with God. Why is this so? Because the world has different tastes from God. What God often rejects, the world values. Sooner or later, those who adopt the world’s philosophy will find themselves in positions contrary to God’s will. Therefore, attachment to the world must not be taken lightly. This is one of the subtlest and deadliest traps used by the powers of darkness.

If one befriends the world, one will never feel sufficient. There is always a sense of lack. Not enough money, not enough possessions, not enough recognition, not enough comfort, and not enough of many other things. Conversely, if one befriends God, a sense of sufficiency with what one currently has will arise. Essentially, the main problem is not how much or how little one possesses, but the state of one’s mind. Some have much yet still feel lacking. Some have little but live in peace and with grateful hearts. When God becomes the source of joy, contentment will naturally follow.

Psalm 37:25 says: “I was young and now I am old, yet I have never seen the righteous forsaken or their children begging bread.” This promise reminds us that God never abandons those who live righteously before Him. Therefore, there is no reason to be dominated by worry about tomorrow. God knows every need and can care for His people. What is required is to continue living righteously, living holy, and living pure before Him. When life pleases God, His provision is no longer merely a hope but a reality that can be experienced each day.